Let's take a time-out from time-outs. Kids are going to test our limits — it's in their job description. But instead of dreading how to respond, parents can seize the opportunity to create activities that are educational and engaging.

Yes, "punishments" can be fun.

Creativity expert, professor, father and former day care provider Rustin Wolfe applies his scientific techniques to some of life's smallest — but most exasperating — problems weekly at MinnMoms.com.

Here's one of his creative solutions:

Pushing for plots

Question: My son is constantly asking, "Tell me something that you made up in your head," but I'm all out. Help!

Behavior: Demanding new stories.

Problem: Parent not a professional storyteller.

Solution: Cheat. He hasn't seen those old Brady Bunch episodes to recognize when you're "borrowing" plot lines.

Activity: As draining as it can be to constantly produce new material, you don't want to squelch his thirst. Recall old television shows, movies, books, comics or even songs that you've enjoyed. Tailor them to fit the specific needs of your audience. After watching "Slumdog Millionaire," I had several days' worth of fresh material, albeit heavily edited. When those ideas run short, combine them — put Lucy, Ricky, Fred and Ethel in the "Wizard of Oz" and let hilarity ensue. Alternatively, see if you can coax him into doing the hard work for you. Ask him, "Who should

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be in it, what should it be about, what do you think happens next, etc.?" It's a great way to get the pressure off you and facilitate his creativity at the same time.

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