Let's take a time-out from time-outs. Kids are going to test our limits — it's in their job description. But instead of dreading how to respond, parents can seize the opportunity to create activities that are educational and engaging.

Yes, "punishments" can be fun.

Creativity expert, professor, father and former day care provider Rustin Wolfe applies his scientific techniques to some of life's smallest — but most exasperating — problems weekly at MinnMoms.com.

Here's one of his creative solutions:

Penny-wise

Question: How can I entertain my kids when I don't have two cents to rub together?

Behavior: Bored.

Problem: Little money to buy toys.

Solution: So, you have one penny, right? Use it.

Activity: I'm no good at magic, yet I taught my son to hide a penny in his sleeve and pull it out of my ear when he was 3. It's pretty cute at parties. We play games where I try different tricks to make the penny disappear. I fail often, but that's the fun. He sees it and feels smart. Occasionally, I manage to successfully distract him, and that's what keeps his interest.

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