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Let's take a time-out from time-outs. Kids are going to test our limits — it's in their job description. But instead of dreading how to respond, parents can seize the opportunity to create activities that are educational and engaging.
Yes, "punishments" can be fun.
Creativity expert, professor, father and former day-care provider Rustin Wolfe applies his scientific techniques to some of life's smallest — but most exasperating — problems weekly at MinnMoms.com.
Here's one of his creative solutions:
Question: How can I get my kid to pick up her toys?
Behavior: Won't pick up toys.
Problem: Mess. Irresponsible.
Solution: Reverse Reverse Psychology.
Activity: Yeah, I just made that term up. There are plenty of things you could try, but here's one that has worked for me. When I noticed my wife getting aggravated by my son's inaction, I stepped in. I whispered to my son, "I've got an idea for something really fun. I will pretend to yell at you, and you quickly clean up. Then you can surprise Mom." I then yelled sarcastically, so my wife knew exactly what was going on. My son quickly cleaned. My wife feigned surprise, and everyone was happy.
