Let's take a time-out from time-outs. Kids are going to test our limits — it's in their job description. But instead of dreading how to respond, parents can seize the opportunity to create activities that are educational and engaging.

Yes, "punishments" can be fun.

Creativity expert, professor, father and former day care provider Rustin Wolfe applies his scientific techniques to some of life's smallest — but most exasperating — problems weekly at MinnMoms.com.

Here's one of his creative solutions:

UNHAPPY MEAL

Question: When my son didn't get the Spider-man figure in his Happy Meal that the kid next to him got, he rejected his toy. How can I get him to appreciate a perfectly fine gift?

Behavior: Rejecting a gift.

Problem: Unappreciative.

Solution: Dare him to use it.

Activity: While you could always suggest giving the toy away to someone who might appreciate it more, when my son pulled this one, I took the toy out of his hand. I gave it a long look and then I turned to him and said, "You know what? You're right. The face on this is too scary for you anyway." He grabbed it back out of my hand to prove me wrong. Sometimes, being wrong couldn't be more right.

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